A Worldwide Women's Day Project · Begun in South Africa

The Imbokodo Letters

"Wathint' abafazi, wathint' imbokodo" — you strike a woman, you strike a rock.

Write a letter to the woman who comes after you — the things you wish someone had told you about money, work, courage, love and starting over. Real letters, from real women, compiled into a keepsake booklet.

What this is

A book written by the women who lived it.

The letter

One woman, one letter

Each woman writes to a daughter, a granddaughter, a young woman she mentors — or simply the next woman who will walk a road she has already walked. Any length, any language. Her handwriting or her keyboard.

The Wall of Letters

Every voice, published

Every letter that passes our gentle guidelines is published here on the Wall — exactly in the writer’s words, in her own language, under the name she chose, for any woman in the world to read.

The anthology

A book that lifts the next woman

Each Women’s Day, a printed anthology is curated from the Wall — letters chosen to represent the whole world of women. Every copy sold funds the Imbokodo Scholarship: coaching, courses, programmes and events for women who really need them and cannot afford them.

Why it matters

Most hard-won wisdom is never written down.

Every woman has lived seasons that ground against her and made her stronger — loss, illness, setbacks, raising children, letting them go, starting over. That strength leaves evidence. But most of it stays in our heads, told in fragments over tea, and one day it goes quiet.

The Imbokodo Letters exist so that it doesn't.

One day a young woman will read your words on the exact morning she needs them. That is what a rock does: it stays, long after the storm that shaped it.

The imbokodo is the grinding stone — the working stone a South African woman used every day to feed her family. Heavy, patient, essential. It only becomes smoother and stronger the more life grinds against it. That stone gave Women's Day its proverb, and this project its name. Read the full 1956 story →

Where the rock has travelled

One map. Every woman's light.

Every letter on the Wall adds its country to the map — watch how far the rock travels.

World map — where the Imbokodo Letters come from
George, South Africa — where the first letters were written
The map fills as the letters arrive — yours could be the next light.
Your letter, your blessing

Nothing is shared without you

Your letter travels exactly as far as your blessing allows: kept private, published on the Wall of Letters, or also considered for the printed anthology. Your name choice — full name, first name, or "from a woman who walked before you" — applies at every level. Before publication you can withdraw your letter simply by writing to us. Once published, publication is final — that is what makes every letter on the Wall, and every page of the book, something a woman gave freely and forever.

Letters are reviewed with love before publishing, your words are never edited, and any language is welcome — your words appear in your language first, a translation alongside, never instead. Every anthology copy sold funds the Imbokodo Scholarship — coaching, courses, programmes and events for women who really need them and cannot afford them.

Every woman has a letter in her.

Yours could be the one she reads on the morning she needs it most.

Free to take part · every contributor receives the booklet · pass it on to the powerful women in your life